To-Do List
We all have a long list of things we’re going to get to any day now. From calling Congress to having lunch with a friend, most of us are chronically behind on everything, and resistance is no exception. Because resisting is a new habit for many of us, it takes conscious planning to make sure it happens. Pick an act of resistance you already decided to do, and eradicate the obstacles!
How to do it:
First, identify the obstacle. Is the issue that you are really dreading doing it? That you don’t have time? That it feels overwhelming? Does it scare you? Your reasons are valid! Resistance often feels like it’s not enough to matter, while simultaneously feeling like a real hurdle to clear. Let’s tackle it!
If you don’t know where to start: the key to paralysis is to break the project down into smaller pieces, but it’s hard to find the starting point for new tasks. Breaking big tasks (like “resistance”) into bite-sized pieces is what we do, so start by searching this site for related posts. For example, we have an entire page on ICE resistance from simple solo tasks to how to take video. Other option include asking a group already doing the work in another area, asking on a public group, or asking a friend to help you figure out where to start. Sometimes you just need someone to think it through!
If you dread it: first evaluate why. Do you dread all phone calls, or are you just nervous about calling Congress for the first time? If it’s transitory, push through and see if it gets easier. Otherwise evaluate how critical the action is. Nobody does everything—is there a reason this task made your list, or did you just think you “ought to do it?” Maybe you should do something with a lower cost to benefit ratio?
If you’re just really busy or overwhelmed, and it keeps not happening, put it on the calendar. Treat it like any other important action: if you can make time for soccer treats, you can make time to drop food at the local pantry.
Maybe you have non-negotiable obstacles: perhaps you’d really like to protest, but physical realities mean you can’t stand for hours. Adapt the task: join a smaller protest you can easily park near, and go for an hour. Decorate your car and drive by honking enthusiastically. Throw a sign-making party and offer to watch someone’s kids while they go. Find a way to do the things you want to do within your limits. Resistance has to be sustainable—we’re in this for the long haul!
