How to do it:

Communities with a history of poverty and oppression tend to build networks and engage in mutual aid out of necessity. White, middle-class American neighborhoods often lack this tradition. It’s time we learned.

Where you start depends on how your neighborhood is now. Are there annual block parties, or do neighbors get in their car in a closed garage and drive away? Do you already have a neighbor with a key to your house, or does the idea shock you? We want to slowly shift culture to rebuild community.

Asking for very small favors is a good way to get started. Borrow a cup of sugar and take back cookies. Mention to the neighbor you wave at that you’ll be gone for the weekend. Ask if they’d text you if they see anything suspicious.

If those actions sound absurdly small, great! Up the ante by offering favors: take over some “extra” cake. You’re breaking down formality, so slices are fine! Offer to mow the lawn or drop off dinner for a busy single parent. You’re already doing your own!

If that seems entirely normal in your neighborhood, you’re ready for real organizing: plan a garden party in the front yard, coordinate holiday lights, or start a rolling card game. Begin with the neighbors you know best — they’ll invite more neighbors.

Your goal is to get to know each other well enough to spring into action if something happens to your community, or anyone in it.